Un-adopting one's self...

Can be preeety tricky...

I'm almost pretty sure that I can't, but I don't want J and S on my birth cert. anymore. I wanna put the bio's on there. Sure, J and S were really good to me. S watched the kids so I can go to work. She bought EVERYTHING except diapers for them for atleast their first year. She was there for me through boys, work, friends, everything. She WAS my best friend. I thought I could tell her anything in confidence, and not have to worry about her telling everyone my business. Boy, was I wrong!

When J called me to tell me that I need to find a place to stay that night, and come the next day to get all my s*** (2 weeks before my wedding mind you) I was livid... I called the police on their son because he was threatening to come to my wedding, he was looking into my backround and harrasing my children. I even told S 3x before I even called the cops on him. She didn't belive me. They were pist bc they thought I was starting trouble and trying to ruin him... Honest to god, I was NOT trying to cause problems for him... I only called to see what my options were. How to keep him and his family from comming to my wedding, and to stop harrassing me and my family. Neither J or S had the decency to help us get the hell out, they didn't help watch the kids while we packed and moved, and they didn't say good bye to my kids.

I used to feel bad about the kid situation. I had always promised S that I would never take my kids away from her. Her kids pull that crap, and I would NEVER hurt my kids like that. And honestly, they don't and have never asked for them. They asked for her dog once or twice in the begining. But honestly, they don't ask for her.

***UPDATE***

I just found out that the bio's have to adopt me in order to get J and S off the birth cert. Guess we should start saving right now!